I have one of these sweet little pistols and shoot it on a regular basis, although I understand parts are becoming a problem. Mine runs like a sewing machine. I think it would make a great house gun for her. It is slim and easy to hide, has little recoil, and with magsafe or RBCD loads, would be a show stopper. The slide is easy to rack and mine has never malfunctioned since I have a had it. Since the hammer is internal, it rides easy in the pocket or purse for her. I really do not think the small safety is a real problem as the thumb comes to rest naturally on it when gripping the pistol. It is a natural pointer and light for an all steel pistol. I have carried mine on occaission as a bu, although it would not be my first choice as a primary. Then again I am not a little old lady. Buy one and let her try it. You can always sell it for what you paid for it. I paid $400, but then again it was pristine original blued (estate collection from you guessed it- a little old lady), with probably not a 200 rounds through it before I bought it.