I have seen some really good coated bullets and some that were not suitable for loading. I typically buy the sample or 100 packs to work up loads to see what works for me. Once I find something that will work I will buy in bulk.
I had a good 45 supplier but the manufacturer suddenly disappeared early last year. I had a bit of a supply and just pressed out the last of them about 2 months ago. I had not found a 9mm that I was happy with. I started a new search and found a 200gr 45 and 2 different weights of 9mm that I was happy with from Bayou Bullets.
www.bayoubullets.net
The better bullets are usually companies that last. The company I used to get 45's from made a great 45 but I had problems with their 9mm. The 9mm had inconsistent sizing, out of round, and the weight had just over 5gr of deviation.