That other forum I linked to is named "Armed Polite Society" after a quote from an author who put forth the notion that ... and armed society is a polite society. Think about that.
The idea is that everyone is polite because they are afraid they will be killed if they are impolite. Not exactly an ideal we should aspire to. It is, in fact, a form of anarchy in which every person is armed and ready to enforce courtesy via the death of anyone who fails to be properly polite.
Many of you are blaming the shooter for instigating a conflict -- but you don't know that he was yelling at the woman. He might have started out being polite and deferential.
This is a false dichotomy. A person can be obsequiously polite and still start a conflict. It doesn't matter how polite a person is if they are involving themselves in the business of others by usurping the authority of the true authorities and trying to enforce laws that they are not entitled to enforce. That is a recipe for conflict no matter how impeccable the instigator's manners are.
Besides, just as it is speculation to assume he was being impolite, it is speculation to assume he wasn't yelling and was stating his case in the most deferential manner possible. Neither one of those speculations gets us any closer to knowing what happened, nor any closer to anything at all other than, perhaps, closer to being creative fiction writers.
...except that she DID do something wrong.
Actually, the fact that she was present in the car for him to confront argues against that premise. As far as I know, there's no law against pulling into a handicapped space and waiting in the car while a passenger goes into the store and buys something.
But, you know, none of that really matters. Literally--you know--because you said so:
All of which has NOTHING to do with the shooting.
But that doesn't mean there are no lessons to be learned from it. Society abhors the kind of person who takes it upon himself (or herself) to try to enforce their own idea of what the law is or they think it should be, or even what it really is when it's not their job. And they REALLY hate it when people like that carry out their personal agenda while armed so that they can feel safer while they go about "poking people with sharp sticks".
Legally carrying a weapon isn't about feeling free to go about confronting people knowing that you can shoot them if they get out of hand. People who think it is are likely to get themselves into a lot of trouble sooner or later.
This was, pure and simple, a case of a young thug who initiated an unprovoked physical attack on an older and smaller man...
Yes, and he should have been prosecuted for it. No doubt he would have been had he not been shot and killed.
In fact, had he pressed the attack after the initial encounter, it's quite likely that there would be no question about the justification of deadly force. But he didn't press the attack. In fact, he was in clear retreat less than a second after the man hit the ground--from the moment that the man on the ground reached for a gun--before the gun was even drawn.
The only problem here is the disconnect between the law says deadly force is for and what some people think deadly force should be for.
It is NOT to be used to punish people who aren't adequately polite. It is NOT to be used to punish people for violently attacking someone. In fact, it's not to punish anyone for ANYTHING they have done, no matter how heinous.
Punishment comes after the fact, and justifiable deadly force is exclusively about preventing an imminent deadly attack or stopping an in-progress deadly attack. Punishment happens after, justifiable deadly force happens immediately before or during. They are two completely different things that happen at different times. They are not the same--they are not intended to be the same.
Punishment is the EXCLUSIVE domain of the justice system. Deadly force laws do not give citizens the right to punish criminals.
Did the attacker deserve to be punished? Yes. Most definitely. But the man he pushed did not have the legal right to determine what the punishment should be, and he certainly didn't have the legal right to mete it out himself.
The attack is not in question. I don't even think there's any serious question about whether or not the attack would have justified deadly force had the deadly force been used to prevent a continuation of the attack. In fact, even without the continuation of the attack, it seems clear that the man on the ground was justified in drawing his gun to prepare to defend himself against a possible continuation of the attack.
But there was no continuation of the attack. The attacker immediately began retreating and even so, 2 or 3 seconds or so after the retreat began, the man on the ground shot him anyway. A jury will now determine if that time interval was too long and I can't say for sure what they will decide because juries can be difficult to second-guess. But if I were the shooter, I wouldn't be optimistic about my chances.