Familiarity breeds competency and safety. Find a good range (outdoor preferable to me) where you can safely practice administrative gun handling: unloading, reloading, chamber checks, holstering and unholstering. do it over and over. Then start to intersperse that with shooting. After you shoot awhile, holstering and drawing, unload, clear the gun, and start over. Over and over. You'll get comfortable after you do it many times, and have no accidental discharges!
Once you get the hang of it, and get used to shooting at fixed targets etc, see if you can find a local IDPA club
http://www.idpa.com and go watch. Hook up with the generally friendly folks there, and start shooting IDPA. You'll have the chance to shoot under pressure, in safe environment, with trained range/safety officers. You'll be amazed at how quickly you get proficient. Good luck, and finger off the trigger!
[This message has been edited by Covert Mission (edited May 31, 2000).]
[This message has been edited by Covert Mission (edited May 31, 2000).]