Dang it, I'm not even sure I even want to jump into this mess.
The OP asked for which bullets should he try for his .357 Mag. and it's turned into a history debate of some such.
So, for the OP, the two bullets I'd look at are the Lyman #358477 (150 gr.) and #358156 (158 gr.) Both shoot very accurately from my .38 Spl. and .357 Magnums with the bullets sized .359". I started casting the #358156 way back in 1954 for use in a Smith & Wesson 38/44 Outdoorsman loading the Spl. brass to 38/44 pressure levels. The 38/44 was the predecessor to the .357 magnum. Loads were on the hotter side of current Plus P ammo. I still use that mold today.
Personally, I'm not all that fond of a 30/1 alloy as it's a bit too soft for my taste. Frankly, I use cleaned wheel weight metal with a tad more tin added for a BHN (hardness) level of 11. As mentioned, sizing to .359" has worked quite well over the years and at times I've been tempted to try some sized to .360". However, for me it ain't broke so whether I ever end up doing it is anybody's guess.
My pet loads are 5.0 gr. of Unique in the .38 Spl. and 14.0 gr. A2400 in the .357 magnum. I use the same loads for the Lyman 150 gr. bullet. It's a plain base so may lead the barrel a bit but I haven't had too much trouble in that regard. The 158 gr. bullet takes a gas check so leading has not been a problem.
My target load is the Lyman #358495 148 gr. wadcutter over 3.1 gr. of W231. A standard loading is 2.7 gr. Bullseye with that bullet.
Dunno how much help that'll be but it's what has worked for me for over 60 years.
Paul B.
As someone brought up that 200 gr. .38 Spl. police load, I have the mold and the data. Very disappointing. I used one to finish off a cow elk that was down but not dead. At a range of three feet that bullet bounced off her skull. Here were three witnesses to that fiasco. I've though about trying it in the .357 but just another haven't gotten around to it thing.