I've thought about posting this before, but seemed, well, sort of too personal.
But I'm a man who "unbuckles, unzips, and unbuttons" for either event, if you catch my meaning. Standing thus my pants certainly droop too far from the weight.
As my solution, I've used the coat hook, the top of the toilet tank (if there is one, often not) the toilet paper dispenser, the baby changing station (in a one person room) or some other flat surface.
Carrying a Single Action Blackhawk causes me no concern when its hung from the coat hook.
Note too, that I always use the stall. At times I've even used the rail in handicapped stalls. Make sure whatever is used is secure.
Bob Wright