Remington's 125 grain Golden Saber load is fairly mild, more like a hot 9mm than the fire-breathing 125s that both it and its competitors load.
The Speer 135 grain Gold Dot is interesting, decent for longer barrels even though it's billed as a short barrel load. Fairly mild to shoot, although it was pretty much unobtanium even before the ammo shortage.
The 180 grain .357 loads get a lot of play from the penetration crowd, but it doesn't thrill me in a handgun. I wouldn't count on a 125 grain .357 in a carbine and I wouldn't like a 180 grain .357 in a handgun.
Lots of good .357 loads, the limitation is how well you shoot them (and how much you can afford to shoot to be proficient).