Beretta 92fs, SIG Sauer P226, Glock 17, 1911, or a S&W 686 or 19 revolver.
like the others have said, the one that fits your hand, feels natural, you shoot the best, balances best,
all will have diffrent grip angles thicknesses, controls and triggers...
revolvers and glocks have no safteys (trigger saftey on glock)
1911 has saftey that is down to fire, baretta is up to fire.. not sure about the sig
the 686/586/if you are planning a steady diet of 125 gr 357, if not a steady diet for range of the fast light stuff the 19 or 66 you could also look at a ruger sp/gp/security six/redhawk as well
9mm and 38 special is going to be the cheapest to shoot
last rws 38 spec i got was 13/box..
nothing wrong with a cz 75 or clone as well.
I just prefer either no safteys, or safteys that are down to fire. (1911,cz,etc)
good list of choices, but you'll have to shoot them to make up your mind.