What I have found:
We all get dealt a hand of cards.
Some folks,at some time in their life,might decide they do not enjoy the game.
Some of these folks go over the edge and do harm.
But some have the courage to face the fact they are not real good at playing,they take ownership,and look for some help.
Some Doctors/therapists think the answer is a prescription.For some disorders,maybe so.
But a lot of folks feel a lot of pain simply because they didn't mature into adults for any number of reasons.That is not an excuse to be a jerk....
But a 13 year old living in a 27 year olds body will be a jerk upon occasion.He will apply 13 year old solutions to 27 year old problems.
A Doctor might prescribe Prozac,or whatever...protocol.
But another approach might take that young man on a journey...
He might grow up to be a mature,responsible citizen.
Sorority girls might not be the end of the world if a guy knows about a Brittany on point,hooking a Northern,or having an Old Man teach him how to keep them in the black...Ruark's "The Old Man and the Boy" stuff.Not knocking relationships with Women,those are good,but the heroin junky fix thing about "needing",,,,A young man needs to know how to stand alone,to
r with other men.
Folks who have gotten help,worked on themselves,faced demons and problems and resolved them...
Are safer,saner,more rational than the guy who says "Hell no,I don't need that crap!I'm fine!!I'm just like them folks on Jerry Springer,and they are on TV"