Wow, sounds like some pretty tight jeans if you got "made" with a P32
I've got an Apache ankle holster and an Uncle Mike's #1 pocket holster for my P32.
The apache's great, but I'd prefer it to be higher on the calf. I sit a lot, in meetings, legs crossed sometimes, and you can see the very tip of the bottom of the holster.
As for the UM#1, if you cut open the stitching on the top of the "flap" under the grip, you can put your spare mag there, and when in your pocket, it looks like square object (palm pilot, gameboy color
) and nobody'll know. There's also the desantis GunHide, that looks like a palm-pilot case. I have one, but I use it just for transportation, since I work with a bunch of techie geeks. If I wore it here, they'd all wanna know what kind of palm I had, wanna see it, etc... and I'd be SCREWED!
Eagle and BlackHawk industries both make an ankle holster that holds a spare mag as well. The gun is upside down for some reason. It looks fairly neat though.
Good luck.