Peggysue,
I will add one more "don't."
A few years ago, I had a S&W pocket pistol in 380. It is a bit larger than the newer Kel Tecs and other brands. I carried it in a pocket holster in my back right rear pocket, usually while wearing jeans. Because the pistol is larger than most, the end of the handle would, at times and depending on the jeans I was wearing, protrude above the top of my pocket just a tiny bit. Most pockets completely covered the pistol.
One day, while checking out in a store, with my wife standing behind me, the end of the handle protruding a little and other people close by, she decided to place her index finger on the protruding handle saying, "what's this." She's good about asking questions when she already knows the answer, which was the case this time. I politely told her she should not point out where my concealed carry is.