Stephen: Actually, the .357 Magnums may have had an edge in your tests regarding barrel length, because an auto pistol measures the chamber as part of the barrel length. Counting the chamber, a .357 Magnum has at least an extra inch of barrel length over an auto. A 3 inch barreled .357 Magnum and a 4 inch barreled 9mm are very comparable. And, the 9mm will probably still be a shorter gun overall and carry more firepower.
I think it is only fair to compare modern defensive cartridges that you can buy off the shelf. That is all I would carry anyway, so handloads don't count.
Also, from a Glock (and most 9mm's), the +P+ is a very safe load. The Glock is designed to shoot submachine gun ammo which is +P++ and it will injest any factory defense load you can put through it. So, I am not worried about shooting +P+ through my gun.
I asked this exact question many moons ago and got no good answer. The truth be known, you are stepping on people's toes when you ask this question. .357 mag lovers are very insulted that you would compare a 9mm to their powerhouse...especially since you make an excellent argument (in factory offerings from comparable guns, the ballistics ARE very similar, and the 9mm is a much better combat platform).
The 9mm is supposed to be an "introductory" "beginner" "base line" minimal cartridge for defense. And, the .357 Magnum is supposed to be the "ultimate", rated even over the .45 and others in STOPPING bad guys.
So, what seperates the "bottom of the rung" 9mm from the "ultimate" .357 Magnum out of comparable guns using comparable factory defensive loads? 50fps? 100fps? 150fps at best?
The 115gr +P+ 9mm is rated top notch by the border patrol (they are forced to shoot a LOT of people and I respect their opinion). They claim this round is just as effective as their old .357 Magnum. Being that I have shot...no one...and they shoot people all the time, I figure they must know what they are talking about.
I still carry a .357 Sig though, just for that peace of mind and because of the above said points. (The border patrol agrees and prefers a .40 caliber over a 9mm, but they say that the +P 9mm does the job well enough).
Using comparable barrel lengths (especially because the .357 Magnum loses a lot of velocity out of a compact gun) the .357 Sig comes out at about 100 fps faster than a comparable .357 Magnum with factory defense loads. All that with more capacity and much softer shooting.