Sorry meant to put the link in. And of course I think there are other factors to consider. Recoil springs, etc. And of course Felt Recoil will vary among individuals. However, I have shot most of the guns in the list and feel they give a good indication of Felt recoil. (at least for me.)
I have a size large hand and shoot he Kahr better than a Glock 43x. For myself, I find the Nano the mildest shooting gun I have shot and feel the recoil is milder than the Newer APX Carry and much less than my Kahr. Yet, some say they feel the grip of the new APX has less recoil. I shot the 365 and the Sig 938 and felt the Sig 938 was a better shooter but yet both rated the same.
So I am sure opinions of felt recoil can go all over the board.
https://www.genitron.com/Articles/post/how-handgun-rankings-are-calculated