Forget trimming, no need for that unless your cases are way off..and they dont stretch after firing like bottleneck rifle cartridges.
Your powder charge seems a little light to me, which explains the sooty, actually surprised you got consistent function with the charge you mentioned.
Your OAL also seems a little short..at least for a Rem FMJ profile you could go longer.
Exceptions to this would be bullets with a unique profile
Such as the Hornady xtp's or very similar Montana Gold FMJ HP, which require a deeper bullet seating as seen in Hornady loading manuels
Usually 1.085-1.10( another important discussion involving bullet nose profile, chamber depth and max OAL that will function in your magazine, just rely on your MANUAL) Tip: make a dummy round to check your chamber depth then back off .015
HS-6 is what i use with various 115gr bullets.
My target loads run around 6.7gr @ 1.13 OAL
As for all the comments regarding crimp...the 9mm is actually a tapered cartridge and bullet retention is mainly a function of neck tension provided by your sizing die. Thus no need for "crimp" just use your taper crimp die to remove the little amount of bell you gave it to seat the bullet.
Forget looking for the usual pressure signs seen when using a rifle, by the time you get flat primers things will already be danger zone. Instead, just get a feel for how hard the gun is cycling, i usually start mid range and if i don't already have reliable function, i bump it up a 1/10 until i do.