With galling of the XTP and the case accompanied by a heavy crimp, the bullet may have simply ripped the case in half. If you are feeling a lot of resistance withdrawing a case from the expander, you may be drawing the brass. That would be from a really tight sizer. I cull all my R.P head stamps in other calibers. All my 41 is Starline. I don't pitch them though, since they will fit a lead bullet diameter. The thin case wall of the Remington R.P allows the sizer to leave the ID oversized enough so that a jacketed bullet is not tight enough to even stand for seating. The fatter lead works okay. R.P may not be worth the trouble, if you have alternatives. I see most of mine in 38 Special, often left lying as once-fired at the range.
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