It will take time
The 357sig is a difficult round to reload. It will take time to find the right bullet and get your dies set up correctly. The best I can do is tell you my routine that works for me. After depriming and tumbling my spent brass, I full length resize my brass with a 40 caliber bulge buster. Then the brass is primed and ready for reloading. First station is a 40sw resizer, 2nd station is the 357sig sizing die. 3rd is the powder and expanding die. Next is the bullet seating die, this is set to 1.140 col. The last die is a lee factory crimp die, this is the most important die to allow your ammo to chamber correctly. Follow the instructions, and make small adjustment until your ammo passes the plunk test everytime.
The right bullet for me is a cast 125grn round nose flat point, it is a 38 cal, bullet that i resized to .356. Its a great bullet that I use for 9mm, 38spcl and 357sig. My goto powder for 357sig is Accurate #7. If you have any questions PM me and I will help if possible.