For years I believed that the .357 Magnum round was the end-all-be-all of handgun rounds, and 50 years later I still believe that. With two exceptions all of my revolvers are chambered in the .357 Magnum caliber. That being said all of my ready revolvers are loaded with Hot 38 special +P ammo. I'm not overly worried about recoil affecting any follow up shots, but I am worried about having an errant round penetrate one of the common walls. No need to take out a neighbor unless there is good reason
With the improvements in bullet design and powder/primer combos a quality 38 special round is all that is needed in most cases. Unless you are shooting through barricades into or at a fleeing auto, or trying to stop a charging wild animal most of us don't need the power of a real .357 Magnum round.
For what it's worth, on two different occasions I was forced to fire my .357 Magnum, revolver, L.o.D. both times I fired two rounds, for a total of four rounds fired, by myself.
Even though this was years ago, I still have a very clear memory of the events. And one thing I clearly remember was, I did not feel any recoil or hear the shots fired. The only way I knew I had fired rounds was the sheet of flame coming from the barrel, and that sucker must have been two feet long.
Last but not least, at 67 years old shooting .357 Magnum ammo out of my K frames, much less my J frame is no longer fun. I see no reason to abuse myself or my revolvers. Now shooting flamethrower ammo out of my N frames, from time to time, is still a hoot.