I see "country" as referring to the people. The government is nothing more than a group of people that we give power to. I like the country, the ideals it's supposed to be fostering, the concepts it was founded on, and most of the people I know in it. But I do not like the government, more specifically the decisions that the people running the government have made. Nor do I like the fact that the basic ideals behind the creation of the country - life, liberty, yada yada yada - are quietly being trampled on.
Then again there are facets about the people that I don't like either. I don't like that many of them will gladly give up freedoms for a false sense of security. I don't like that many of them don't bother to vote yet still complain. I don't like that most of them are so easily turned by a few eloquent words. I don't like how so many of them want to stop others from living however they please and I don't like how some of them persecute others based on religious ideals.
I'm never one to say "This is the greatest country in the world!" because I don't subscribe to the theory that any country can meet that standard for everyone nor do I believe that any one country can offer everything I want. But I still like the country. I don't know about love; I have love for my friends, my pets, and yes even some inanimate objects like my car because I've put so much time and effort into building a machine to my liking that I consider it a part of me. I hold the ideals of freedom and equality close to my heart but I kinda don't get the concept of loving a country.
Not saying that anyone is wrong in doing so, I just haven't quite figured out how to approach it. I'd be willing to lay my life down for those ideals that this country represents (at least, most of the ideals...policing the world is not one I approve of) but then again I don't feel I have to love something to risk my life for it. I have a very clinical definition of love anyways so I guess that somewhat alters my perception.
WHere was I? Oh yeah, love of country. I'm cool with anyone that says he loves his country or his government or his flag. I do, however, feel it's rude to call someone "unamerican" for not saying the same.