As to transfers, it is your decision, but I see no reason a dealer should do a transfer on a gun when he has the same gun in stock or can order it. That is dumb and IMHO, the dealer should tell the "customer" to take his "business" elsewhere.
When looking for a gun, I always ask the local dealer for his best price on getting me one. If he is even close, I'll buy to support his business.
On the other hand, if I find a gun (mostly private sales) from out of state that he cannot beat the price, he might as well make a few bucks doing the paperwork for the transfer.
Were he to have a blanket ban on doing tranfers, I might consider taking all of my business elsewhere.