I dont think the compact 1911's are bad; I just dont see what the advantage is.
ADVANTAGES
With an OWB (probably the most comfortable carry), 2" shorter slide length is 2" less you have to worry about your over clothing pulling up & exposing your gun.
Lighter weight (it will be carried more than shot).
Less leather to clear to bring into action.
Less mass to bring into action.
Shorter slide length is harder to grab from an aggressor standpoint.
Again, it's all personal choice. I would offer though, that in a defensive role the accuracy shouldn't be an issue because the range you would be shooting would be short (we are talking about citizen CCW here, I believe). Any well built 1911 would fit that bill, 3" long barrel or 5".
The newer personal defense JHP perform well in short barrels, especially in those short distances when velocities are still high.
As far as 230gr bullets go, there are good bullet designs in 165, 180, 200, etc. I wouldn't hesitate to use any of them
that functioned well in my semi-auto. If a 230gr was less reliable or expanded less, I would chuck it in favor of a lighter load that performed better.
It will recoil more, that's a fact. However, the newer hi-grip beavertails do help in reducing the muzzle flip.
Reliability would need measured for each gun on its own merits.
Well, instead of beating them on the head with the gun, maybe you can throw extra mags at them