I'm with others here as far as the revolver goes. It's much simpler to operate and extremely reliable. If I could get my wife to carry, I'd want her to have a revolver.
However, your wife probably isn't going to want to carry a 4 inch barrel in her purse or on her person, so I expect you'll be looking at 2 inch barrels. Still you can't go wrong with a .357. Plenty powerful and she can carry .38s if she wants. Get a used S&W, or maybe look into the Taurus line of revolvers.
As for the weak hand strength, a trigger job can work wonders here. At my CCW qualification, a young lady struggled to qualify because the trigger pull on her .38 was too stiff. She did make it, but just barely, and at one point she couldn't even pull the trigger with her support (left) hand. About a month later, she and her husband attended an advanced handgun class at the same school. She had gotten a trigger job on the gun, and the difference was night and day. She performed much better and shot rounds all day long without the signs of weakness in her hands.
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Guyon
NRA & GOA Member
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[This message has been edited by Guyon (edited September 15, 2000).]