just an update
Today at the gun club, after re-learning how to shoot skeet, I got her to shoot. I had her using the single 20 gauge. I considered the reccomendations about an auto but she could barely keep my 870 pointed up due to the weight. I had her shoot a couple of rounds without throwing birds to get her used to recoil. This scared and discouraged her. Fortunately, after just a few shots at targets, she started to break clays. Her shriek of "YES! I hit one!" was loud even with my earmuffs on. After that she was hitting them fairly consistently and having a great time. She's already looking forward to the next time we go! I had her use Remington Gun Club shells. I think this light load made a difference in the recoil. I even got her to fire my 870, but she didn't like it much. Thanks everyone for your advice. Thanks to you, we may have a new shooter on our hands!