IMHO the .41 Mag is probably the most underrated revolver cartridge there is. It is definately a handloader's cartridge because of the dearth of factory ammo available, BUT, to their credit, Federal is finally making a serious hunting/PD round using the great Cast Performance 240 gr. flatnose projectile.
Since I'm feeding several .41s from a 2 1/2" Taurus (occasional carry, especially in winter), to a couple of longer bbl S&Ws and a Marlin carbine (a super pig/coyote gun), I've had a really great time developing loads specific to the firearm and the application. From 170 gr JHP for the Taurus to some 280 gr monsters for the Marlin and lots in between. If you do get serious about loading for the .41, you'll find much more help in the forums than you ever will in the manuals.
The bottom line is that you can do pretty much anything with a .41 Mag that you need to. The recoil junkies will tell you how much better their .44 Mags are, but that's more opinion than fact. Remember that the .41 IS a "0.41" and the .44 is NOT a "0.44", it's a 0.429 ... only 0.019 larger in diameter. Good handloading make up the difference and then some.
Have fun!
Rick
The Gunrunner