I'm looking at an XDs mod 2, or a single stack xds for my wife's concealed carry. We test fired it, worked great. Easy to control, good weight and size.
Why should others care enough to talk you in or out of anything? As for an evaluation of the specific pistol listed i personally feel there are other pistols to fill the small concealable role in a better fashion. If you are that indecisive then you and the wife should fire other pistols before making the final decision.
^^^Interesting! The biggest reason I might choose an XD model over any Glock pistol is due to it having a grip safety. No accounting for taste and it's good that we have choices.
Were it my $, I'd actually look a little closer at the XDm 3.8" Compact. Honestly, I don't know how much difference the 0.5" in barrel length would make, but I think I'd rather have the slightly longer barrel. . . (sayeth the man who has shot neither model). The XDm 3.8" is also slightly fatter, for whatever that's worth.