People will think Im Kahr happy...but Ill recommend them anyway.
The grip on the K" series is small enough, my 8 year old son can shoot my 40 and it doesnt jump from his hands.
Look at a K9, have her hold one in person...Ill almost guarantee you she will say...OK, we can go home now!
Its small and is pleasant to shoot.....take a look.
Shoot well