Wow, great questions led farmer. Makes me think it over more, which is why I threw the puzzle out here to begin with. Since you are going to try the filter thing, I need to add some there to save you some trial and effort. First time I tried that I did not see the brass particulates, cause they stayed in the tumbler, mixed with the steel pins. The particles are tiny but weigh enough to settle to the bottom as soon as the slurry motion stops.
Plus I did not even suspect they were there until I started emptying the tumbler by rubber banding a piece of old T-shirt over the mouth (To stop the pins) then inverting the tumbler into a black plastic catch tub. Once I was sure no pins escaped into the catch tub, I would take it out to the garden and pour it out slowly. That's when I noticed some golden glitter in the bottom. Poured slowly, all the glitter remains in the catch tub while the water and carbon pour out. That glitter made it through a T-shirt so it is fine. Agitate the small amount of solution left then pour into a proper filter will catch the fine brass without all the carbon gunk there to hide it.
Now your questions. Until about two years ago, I have always cleaned brass in a vibrator with corn cob media, then re-size/de-cap and final vibrator clean with a touch of car polish, then prime, powder, and bullets. Two years ago I had been reading about the "new" stainless pin cleaning technique, having not been impressed with a friends experience with ultrasonics, I did decide to try the pins. To use them I replaced my second, post-decapping clean with wet SS pins versus the old car polish corn final clean. Also I use "de-capping" to mean removed primers, since I tend to use a universal de-capper for rifle cases but I de-cap with a re-sizing die for the pistols. So the last two years I have been running as just described. I would run several hundred cases, then dry and store until I get to the time for priming. I ran quite a few and stored prominently as I was greatly pleased with the final look the SS pins give. It was when I started priming the first super shiny lot that I started noticing loose primers. Maybe 18 months ago. After that, I started putting each separate load of tumbler cases in separate containers to get an idea on the primer hole fail rate. The primers I use are all CCI except I occasionally use Winchester for some large pistol applications. Hmm, well for small rifle 223 I use Remington 71/2 for bolt and CCI #41 for AR.
All priming failures were the same manner. Dillon press, did not feel like a primer was there, opps yes there is it just comes back out, change case, same primer feels right and goes in properly in new case but mark the loose case. All set aside marked cases will not hold a primer, I can drop them in with tweezers, turn case upright and primer falls right out. Cases are mixed as was the original cleaning stuff, mostly winchester, Lake City (223), remington, WCC, and PMC. To the best of my knowledge, all cases I have used SS pins on were once fired, brass per preceeding sentence. Some, like the Lake City 223 had crimped primers, which I swaged to remove crimps but these were cleaned with corncob media after swaging, before SS pins.
I have been reloading since the 70's. I have never encountered a "loose primer" before, which is why I began the earliest post above with that opening. Always wondered how you tell when a primer is too-loose. Now I know. Since I began using the SS pins with my once fired factory cases, I now have a collection of 29 cases which will not hold a primer at all, and thats out of around 2000 or so cases I have run through the pins. As in the first post above, mixed calibers, a few different case brands, and every one is a "small" primer. About 500 or so of the 2000 were large primers but all of those have primed properly. I am seeing a primer hole problem of close to 2 percent. None, absolute zero before the SS pin technique was added to my process.
Last comment, yes I know wet tumbling has been around a while but I only encountered use of SS pins a bit over two years ago. Also I have a possible more serious issue with SS pins but have not yet been able to reproduce the effect so that one I will not mention until I know more.