I don't think the XD and XDM are much different. "Match" barrel on the M model, but both use the same mags. I bought the XDM in .45 with the 3.8" barrel and short grip for CCW. Match and 3.8" barrel is a bit laughable, but it was more about size. They later had the XD mod 2 in slightly smaller format that I would have gone to had I not already vetted the 3.8 for a carry gun.I've had no issues with my .45 XD. Not the same gun of course, but zero hiccups.
Springfield makes, sells, great guns and stands behind them from my experience.
Not sure why people crap on Springfield so much.