New to guns, rentals...
1st, there are some points to stress;
Sit down and really talk about the use of force issues & legal factors involved. Guns are extremely dangerous. They are not toys, props or fashion statements.
Make 100% sure she knows & understands the state/local gun laws and can be fully ready to explain her actions if required.
I'd rent or borrow a few DA/DA only revolvers then let her shoot a few/handle them.
If she can safely fire/load-unload/clean etc a firearm, then look for a simple robust 5/6 shot snub like a Ruger LCR .38spl +P or a S&W 442-642 no lock J frame.
She can use a decent factory made load like the Corbon DPX, the Ranger T .38spl load, the Speer Gold Dot 135gr JHP +P, MagSafe SWAT, PowRball, Glaser Silver Safety Slug, Buffalo Bore 158gr +P+ lead SWC-HP.
Some gunners knock frangibles but a high quality exotic like a Glaser Silver or MagSafe lowers the risk of a ricochet or a round punching thru a violent subject.
They are more than capable for home protection.
She could add a CT lasergrip or Lasermax to the snub revolver. A XS night sight is a good add-on too. Lasers do not replace marksmanship but can aid with training.
Cleaning & storage are important. Use a high quality CLP like LPX, Gunzilla, Slip2000, or Ballistol.
CF
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