It's amazing how similar are the stories of the 10mm and .41 Magnum; experienced people promote the idea of a new service cartridge, but the delivered round is so compromised that the original idea falls completely by the wayside, and we're left to debate the unintended consequences.
Because of the power of the full-magnum loads, all .41 revolvers had to be big, heavy guns. Cops prefer smaller, lighter .357s.
Because the length of the 10mm cartridge requires a big, heavy gun, cops prefer the .40.