dmarie,
I hope you are still around these parts. I just saw your post, and wanted to reassure you that the Bodyguard will work fine for you.
I bought one for my wife as a Christmas present this last Holiday. She has never had a gun of her own, so she is some what of a rookie, herself.
She very much likes the gun and was excited to shoot it. She found that she could only shoot around 40 shots of standard ammo, though, before her wrist started to feel the effects of recoil.
So, after her first range session, we started loading the gun up with +P for the first five shots, then the rest of the practice is done with cowboy 38's.
She can manage to go through a box of cowboys and 5 +p every time we practice now. It seems to work.
As for the short sight radius, we only practice to 7 yards, as that is what her gun is intended for. Protection if someone gets too close. When she started, she was having problems hitting a 8"x11" piece of paper, but after only a few boxes of ammo, she can put the whole box of cowboys in the paper.
I suggest that you shoot a few +P every time you practice, then use the cowboy ammo for the rest of the time. Don't try and shoot past 5-7 yards, as any further will be discuouraging.
I hope you enjoy your BG as much as my Mrs. does.
P.S. We found the laser to be pretty far from Point of Aim. It was hard to adjust, because we shoot outside and it was hard to see. But once we finally got it adjusted, it is near POA. I think it will help if she ever needs the gun indoors.