I have one and it is probably my favorite Smith and Wesson revolver. This is quite a feat as I’ve probably had 25 that have passed through my hands, including a 696, which to me was just too heavy for what it was.
My 396 must have the best trigger pull possible, which is weird considering the funky metallurgy. But I really like it because it is kind of a “little big gun”. To me, it just doesn’t get any better than a .44 small and light enough to actually carry comfortably every day ... that’s accurate enough for bullseyes and small game close up. Yet the frame is big enough and there is enough heft about the piece that you don't shake as you are squeezing off a couple of shots.
I feel it is a reloader’s gun, so if you’re limited to factory stuff I wouldn’t bother.
Why? You will find full power loads unpleasant for prolonged target sessions. I load my .44 spls. down and the gun is no different than shooting a .38. Also, the bullet-pulling "problem" is not a problem at all if your loads have a strong crimp. I shoot 240’s quite regularly with no problems yet. But I get the impression that factory .44 spl.’s use a lackadaisacal kind of crimp. So reload and you can control that.
With full power loads, it kicks like it’s a magnum, not at all "brutal" as some on here claim, and I am quite recoil sensitive due to arthritis. However, I don't shoot more than 15 rounds a day in it either.
Besides, sometimes I kind of enjoy magnum recoil in limited quantities. And I am certainly not going to be cranking off a box of 50 at any villain or rabbit anyway, so to me I guess it is more important that I have something powerful but handy vs. something I can fire all day off a bench.
And yes the sights are pretty unusable so far as I am concerned. I’m going to replace my V-shaped rear soon so I can get a real sight picture.
Hope this helps.