The Ruger is a better natural pointer IMO, and good heft to tame recoil. Get one in .357, not .38. A S&W may have a lighter trigger pull, maybe not in the newer ones though. The Ruger will be cheaper, so you can invest the differance in a trigger job and grips to suit the shooters hand. The Ruger will be more durable than the S&W frame size for frame size. The S&W is probably prettier - but a little polish and some nice wood grips will take care of that.