Is it safe to add the starting load and max load ( from loading manuals) together divide by 2 and use that as a starting load. Thanks for all help.
Safe? as in, will it blow up my gun?? I highly doubt it will blow up your gun.
However, its not a good practice, nor is there any valid reason to do it that way.
Every gun and ammo component combination has the potential to act differently. Usually the variation is very slight, often unnoticeable, but sometimes, it is extreme.
You and I don't have the same gun they used for their load testing. Even if it is the same make and model, its NOT the SAME gun. We don't have the exact components they used, either. Even if we use their bullet, and the "same" brand of powder, cases, & primers, different lot#s of components can give differing results.
Again, most will be very similar, close enough to make reloading data useful guidelines. And, there is NO way to tell, exactly what results you will get, until your shoot.
Gun A might shoot ok, but not cycle reliably with a given load. Guns B through Y might work fine, everything normal, and gun Z might give you cratered, flattened primers and sticky extraction, ALL WITH THE SAME LOAD.
There is no hard and fast rule, other than different combinations of factors MAY behave differently. This is why we start low, slowly (in small steps) working up to upper or max listed loads. It is the only way to know what will work properly in your gun, and where your gun sets its own limits.
Moving this to the reloading forum, where you will probably be flooded with well meant advice. Beware of information overload!