Agreed--get the Kuhnhausen book. That being said, here's how to disassemble that SW revolver.
1. CLEAR THE WEAPON. Is it clear? Good. Now, check it again.
2. Turn the revolver on its left side; cylinder latch should be down.
3. With a PROPERLY FITTED SCREWDRIVER, remove the screw closest to the front of the revolver.
4. Turn it over. Press the cylinder latch, swing the cylinder open. While holding the cylinder steady, pull the crane assembly forward and out of the frame. Lay the cylinder and crane to the side.
5. Remove the grips.
6. Turn the revolver back over on its left side. Now, remove the rest of the screws. Keep track of which hole they go into--there IS a difference.
7. Now, using a plastic mallet or a hammer handle, hold the revolver by the barrel. Tap smartly on the grip, right across the center. The sideplate will gradually come up and out.
8. Set the side plate to the side. Remove the hammer block (the funny L-shaped piece of metal.
9. Loosen and remove the strain screw.
10. Remove the mainspring, gently disengaging it from the hammer stirrup.
11. Press the hammer, trigger and rebound slide INTO the frame with a thumb to ensure proper alignment for the next step.
12. Pull trigger to the rear, while holding the cylinder latch back. The hammer will rotate backward.
13. While holding the trigger to the rear, pull the hammer straight out of the frame.
14. Now, get a good sturdy shop rag. Double it up.
15. Get a flat bladed screwdriver (or a spring removal tool, available from Brownell's--or make your own by filing the sides of a small screwdriver, leaving a small tip about 1/8 inch long in the center. Heat the blade in a neutral flame until just beginning to show color, then quench in a two step process--one quick dunk, and then plunge it into cool water after about a five second pause. This will properly harden the blade.) Insert the end of the tool in the opening in the end of the rebound slide.
16. Place the cloth over your hands and the pistol, and place your thumb (through the cloth, thank you) over the opening in the rebound slide.
17. Slowly pry upward. You'll feel the spring come out, and smack your thumb. If you have padded your thumb, you'll feel a thump. If not, you'll have an owie. Remove the rebound slide and spring. Be careful not to dump out the guide rod INSIDE the rebound slide.
18. Pull the trigger to the rear to clear the cylinder stop, and lift it out.
Reassemble in reverse order. Ensure that you do a function check after the revolver is reassembled. If you don't feel comfortable doing this, have someone else show you how to do it. It's a lot simpler than it sounds.