The Hydra-Shok is a very old design that has been shown to NOT perform well in expansion testing. That would be my last choice regardless of what else was available.
Of the other two, the Hornady XTP is the newest bullet design and arguably the best of the three you mentioned for penetration, expansion, and weight retention. Despite that, I use Golden Sabers, for the same reason as Quincunx: the bullet shape is best for reliable feeding in any 1911 I have ever tested them in.
Note that Golden Sabers are available in both 185-grain and 230-grain, +P or not +P, and bonded or not bonded. I use the 230-grain non-+P, but I am starting to think that I should be using the 185-grain +P in short-barrel pistols for the extra velocity. There is little difference between the two in perceived recoil. If you can get them, the bonded have better weight retention, but the non-bonded are still good bullets.