I'd advise the RCBS dies with a Lyman M die if you want to delve into cast boolits.
I've been loading the .45-70 since 1983. The RCBS 3 die set (and shellholder) are plenty, you don't need an "M" die to load cast bullets, or at least I never needed one.
The Lyman "M" die is just a universal die body for a case mouth expander, and the 3 die set (any maker) has that expander die as part of it.
I personally don't recommend using a Dillon or other progressive loader for the .45-70, at least until you are experienced with both the round and the loader.
It loads like a large pistol round (straight case, 3 die set). Proper crimp is needed for the lever guns like the marlin. The Marlin also has a max length, which will feed through the tube, and there are some heavy (500gr+) slugs that are too long for that, but the slugs you are talking about using should be no problem.
I had a Siamese Mauser, and a Marlin 95, which I eventually passed on to others as surplus to my needs. I have a Ruger no.3 and a Contender, and am fairly well acquainted with .45-70 loads for modern rifles, from mild to wild.
Save the heavy loads for hunting (& sighting in), the .45-70 is a lot of fun to shoot with 400gr or less slugs at blackpowder speeds (12-1300fps) or less, and recoil isn't all that bad, more of a shove than a sharp kick.
Higher speeds, expecially with heavy bullets WILL kick the SNOT out of you. Approach with caution!