I'm somewhat of a 410 fanatic, owned many of them, reloaded and patterned as well as chronographed the loads.
Here's some observations.
While 3/4 410 loads pattern good on paper they're to slow for just about anything you would want them for, most factory loads won't go over 1000fps and are ineffective on game and to slow for skeet.
AA's and STS's in 2.5 are great on clay targets, I don't use them on live game.
I have two 410 Mec loaders, a 650 for AA's and a Junior for 3" cases, 410's are the hardest shotgun shell there is to load and 3" 410 shells are the worst of the worst to load.
Although I'm set up to load 3" shell I rarely do it, see the last sentence.
The standard 3" Winchester and Remington 11/16 load is the best, I use #5 through #9 depending on what I'm hunting.
My favorite two loads, Winchester super x 3" #9 and Remington 3" #5, both are solid 30yd game getters.
If the op wants to torture himself I'll sell him 100 3' empties.