I’ve run into this a few times and not just with women and girls. People that have never handled a semi-auto and don’t particularly care about shooting can’t rack the slide.
My (middle teen-age) daughter never much cared for shooting and could not rack the slide of my full-sized 1911 .45 ACP. Then one day she decided she wanted to go to the range with me. We went over the basics at home, she grabbed the 1911 in one hand, grabbed the slide with the other and racked it just fine. After that she knew she could do it and never had any problems.
The person has to want to rack the slide and know they can do it and then they won’t have any problems.
My (middle teen-age) daughter never much cared for shooting and could not rack the slide of my full-sized 1911 .45 ACP. Then one day she decided she wanted to go to the range with me. We went over the basics at home, she grabbed the 1911 in one hand, grabbed the slide with the other and racked it just fine. After that she knew she could do it and never had any problems.
The person has to want to rack the slide and know they can do it and then they won’t have any problems.