Yea, it is strange at first. Always checking to make sure your not printing, or it comes out of the holster, afraid it will go off, etc. etc. Take the required trip to Wal-Mart.
Been there, done that. At first, you'll be SURE everyone can see your weapon. The more you carry, the more relaxed you'll be with it. Believe me, out of 100 people you meet, maybe 5 MIGHT THINK you're packing. The "sheeple" just aren't aware.
Out of 10 who positively make your weapon:
8 will think you're some type of LEO and ignore you.
1 will be a BG who suddenly decides it's the wrong day to rob McDonald's.
1 will be another carrier who will smile to himself and think, "Today I'm not alone."
If you carry properly no one will ever be SURE of your weapon. So what if the butt prints...it's a vaguely rectangular shape under your shirt. Could be a pager, cell phone, pocket reminder, etc. Unless you're wearing Speedos, no one will really KNOW.
DON'T make an excessive effort to protect or hide your weapon.
DON'T make goofy faces or silly smiles (unless you do this normally).
DON'T hitch your pants up by the holster.
DON'T keep pulling your shirt down on that side.
In other words - ACT NORMALLY.
You think you're self conscious - you shoulda seen me the first day I open carried in a NC Wal-Mart. No one even noticed that I know of. No pointing, no stares...and I tried to be VERY casual - like, "What gun?"