If your daughter is going to college or is involved in sports, she might consider these one harness shoulder bags.
I've been trying to find a good one, there's a general one made by Jans Sport ($15 at the swap meet.
There is an ergonomically correct bag by American Tourister(?) only saw the picture, waiting for some to come in...made from leather and some kind of microfiber.
I've been checking it out because with the harness, it's comfortable and can more or less stay on your body, while acting like a big crossdraw holster, leaving your hands free.
My wife said that the one disadvantage with a purse is that it is often put down and is temporarily away from her body which could mean time lag to accessing her sidearm if TSHTF.
Good luck...keep us posted on your search and I'll do the same.
