My take on this is as follows (please correct me if you believe I'm wrong): If one wants to transfer a handgun from out of state (Oregon) to a buyer or family member living in California, one has to contact a FFL in Oregon to perform the transfer itself. The would-be recipient on the CA end must also go through a FFL in CA to do the receiving. Prior to the Oregon FFL shipping the gun, he must have received a signed copy of the CA FFL license via snail mail. Fax and/or photo copy is not acceptable nor legal. Upon receipt, the Oregon FFL ships to the CA FFL. Upon receiving the transferred firearm, the CA FFL notifies the ultimate recipient who then fills out the CA DOJ paperwork and submits to a 10 calendar day waiting period and background check (CA has instant check but a 10 day wait as well). At pick-up following the 10 day wait, the recipient completes a Form 4473, as required by BATF, and takes possession of the weapon. The recipient pays the DROS and transfer fee in CA. The seller or giver pays a transfer fee to the OR FFL. Shipping cost is mutually worked out between the seller or giver and the FFL doing the shipping. That cost may be added to the ultimate price. That arrangement is also worked out between the buyer and seller irrespective of and without involvement of either FFL.
Further, the recipient must hold a CA Firearms Safety Certificate to buy or take possession of a handgun. Or he must show evidence of military service with honorable discharge via a DD214.
Guns "on the CA DOJ approved list" refer to new handguns provided by a manufacturer to a distributor or dealer in CA. If not on "the list," having not been submitted for nor passed the drop testing requirement, the new handgun may not be sold by a dealer in CA.