Speer #14 has it from 7.0 to 7.8 grains. It specifies the 7.0 as the "FBI load." Whatever that means.
The 40SW was spawned by downloading 10mm for less recoil. Alliant lists that 7.8 in current data on their website. Speer's data for 165 is identical to Alliant (7.8 for 1081 fps), start at 7.0. FBI Load? 7.0 is a starting/target load, maybe appropriate for range practice for the recoil and muzzle blast shy. Remember, the 10mm scared them.
Power Pistol makes significant muzzle flash. BE-86 and Silhouette don't.
The Extreme load is for plated bullets? I found Rainier and Berry's to have strong plating, undisturbed by Glock polygonal barrels; even a squib I hammered out of a barrel looked new. I cant speak about Extreme plating.
Berrys says you can use jacked bullet data as is.
"Question: Do you have load data available? COL or OAL?
Please consult load data books or your powder manufacturers' website for load information.
You can use any published data as long as it is the same weight (FMJ, Lead, Plated, etc.)
-Standard Plate Bullets max velocity- 1,250 fps.
-Thick Plate Bullets (TP) max velocity- 1,500 fps.
For SAAMI MAX COL specs or OAL of the bullet please click HERE.
We recommend a light crimp on the bullet, just enough to put pressure against the bullet without denting or deforming the plating. If you were to pull the bullet out of a case with the proper crimp you would find no more than a scratch on the surface of the plating. If you are denting or deforming the bullet, your accuracy will suffer and the bullet may start to tumble before it hits the target.
Here are websites with load data information,
https://www.hodgdon.com/basic-manual-inquiry.html
http://www.accuratepowder.com/wp-contentuploads/2010/09/WP_LoadSpec_1-23-14.pdf
http://www.alliantpowder.com/reloaders/default.aspx"
This does NOT mean you can do the same with other brands of plated bullets. So if you have Extreme bullets you need to use their data (or buy Berrys next time).