First wanted to say hi to everyone and love this site so far. I just started shooting in the last couple of weeks and have realized I love to shoot at the local range. So far I have fired 2 different barrel length .357 using .38 ammo, and a .38 Special S&W. I didn't care for the recoil and feel of the 38 S&W, so that is out of the running for me. I did like the feel and accuracy of the longer barreled 357 and did pretty good on the targets with it. My Dillemma is that I am considering joining a police department in the very near future and have been told to just get a Sigsauer P226 40 caliber, and I would be set as far as only having one handgun to start with. My buddy who suggested this has been an officer for 4 years now and also suggested I look at one called a CZ .40. Right now I mainly want something for shooting at the range and for home defense. I really do like the idea of having less times of reloading with the semi autos, but it seems the 357 wheel types are a bit cheaper which also is a factor. I havent shot the CZ yet or the Sig, but plan on doing so very soon. I want to spend around $800.00 or less and want to have the best of both worlds(home defense and range shooting). What are your suggestions on my situation? I do trust my buddies suggestions, but always get other opinions to ease my mind. At this time I don't plan of using it as a concealed weapon, but that may be a plan in the near future. I have shorter fingers but thick ones if that makes any difference. One more question I have is I have 2 small children one 5, and one 6. Is there any good books, magazines, or classes you would recommend to teach me further safety on keeping the gun away and secured properly from the kids? The safety of my kids obviously comes first and definitely will not buy anything till I learn this first. Thank you very much for any help you can give.