First, I'd advise against anything less than a 9mm when it comes to defense. On that note I'd buy her a Kahr MK9. She is your most valuble asset, right? Is'nt she worth it?
If your looking to save some cash, and still have a decent gun, I'd buy a Makarov in 9mm Mak. More than .380, less than 9mm Para.
If you insist on a .25/.32, I'd suggest a Beretta even though I'm not a big fan of Beretta in general.
[This message has been edited by BB (edited December 24, 1999).]