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Those who fight monsters should take care that in the process they do not become monsters. When you look deep into the Abyss, the Abyss looks deep into you.[/quote]
Normally, Nietzche irritates the snot out of me, but every cop should keep that quote firmly in mind.
Be active in your community. One of the worst things you can do is restrict your friendships only to other cops. Join and attend a local church. Make friends with people who aren't cops, firemen or EMT's.
Your job is to catch 'em, not cook 'em. You did your job when you caught them and brought them to trial. If they walk after the trial, it isn't your fault. You or someone else will catch them again.
Nothing scares a critter worse than being treated with formal Southern courtesy. Beatings, threats, testosterone and macho attitudes are second nature to the critters. It's something they must learn in prison merely to survive. Icy control and formal courtesy are something they never experience, and thus, is frightening. Never treat a critter with contempt--they understand contempt.
Develop your other senses. Too many people rely soley on their sight. You no longer have that luxury.
Practice with your weapons
at least once a month. If you are well-trained, get
better training for your weapons. Especially your hands.
Hug and kiss your wife before you go on shift and after you get off shift. Always. Even is she's asleep. Do the same with your kids.
Always wear your armour.
Always.
Remain in control. Control of the situation, control of other people and control of yourself. Panic and rage are no longer options for you -- too many other people are counting on you.
Keep in mind, when you're neck-deep in the sewer of humanity -- you are only dealing with 1% of the population. There's still another 99% that are good people.
That badge will get you a lot of tail, but a lot of tail will get that badge. There will be countless opportunities to screw around -- don't. Oathbreaking is oathbreaking, whether it's to "Love, Honour and Cherish" or "Uphold the Law."
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Blessed are the Peacemakers, for they shall be called the Children of God.
--book of Matthew, 5:9[/quote]
I'm certain I've got more advice floating about, but it's too early in the morning.
Congratulations, good luck and welcome to Public Service!
LawDog