I want to purchase a small carry gun for my wife. She is NOT into autos at all -- just too dadburned complicated for her and she has difficulty working the slide. I am thinking that the Smith and Wesson Model 36 Ladysmith would be a good choice -- a 20 ounce revolver, and loaded with 125 grain +p hollow points the recoil should not be too stout. She has no problem working the double action trigger of my M640 but thinks it is "too manly". Thoughts? Any women out there with experience with this revolver? Thanks.