I feel like I'm pretty well equipped to talk about this, even though I'm a firearms newbie, because my other hobbies have similar issues.
In electric guitars, some people are obsessed with how many pieces of wood the guitar body is made of ("mine's two; yours is three...yours sucks"), or whether a certain finish sucks the tone out of the guitar ("I would never play a Strat with a poly finish!"). Then there are real musicians who actually play for a living; they couldn't tell you about that stuff or care less.
In pocket knives, some people (myself included...) will debate for years about the best kind of stainless steel ("How could you use 440-C on a recurved, flat-grind knife?"). If you think gun folks are concerned about the materials that go into their toys, check out knife nuts like me...I can tell you what the washers are made of in every one of my knives, and why each one has the blade chromium content that it does. And then there are folks who use knives every day for a living, and they couldn't tell you about that stuff or care less.
Pool cues: I have a Predator 314 shaft with a stainless joint (I sure do like those wood-to-wood joints, though). It's made of 10 separate pie-shaped pieces, fitted together to make a perfect shaft that flexes the same in every direction. I'm good, but there are lots of people out there who can clean the table with my sorry ass, playing with a house cue.
I could go on, of course. The point is that there's always an upgrade, no matter how upgraded you are. But well before you run out of upgrades, you hit a point where you're not really adding any functionality. I have a basic Kimber. The only thing I'm going to do is add match grips. When it's time for a trigger job (it would be nice to have a 2.5-pound trigger...), I won't mind replacing a sear or whatnot. For now, that sear is never going to keep my gun from going off.