Olley,
This is a tough one since you know what you are doing,
And since you are a MC trained shooter, you are probably doing everything right.
What I'm finding as I age, and rely on magnified optics more and more,
Is that its not just the optics (junk to excellent), but its the way they are mounted and adjusted.
Curvature of the lenses cause issues.
Starting around $800 the better manufacturers take this issue out in professional grade optics,
While the lesser grade manufacturers don't bother...
About the center 20% of the optic will be mostly true,
(Lenses centered, more or less)
The other 80% of the useable adjustment will NOT be centered, and you get all sorts of issues when you sight through those parts of the lenses.
One quick test for FOCAL PLANE is to bag or vice the rifle,
Sighted on a target,
And without touching the rifle, weave your head back and forth a little,
See if the reticle ('Cross Hairs') move on the target, target seeming to be stationary,
Or if the reticle seems solid and the target moves behind the cross hairs...
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Two parts more,
As we age, we gain skin thickness, and the skin slips on the bones easier,
Making a solid cheek weld harder to do.
The second part is, as we age the eye won't dilate to a full 6 or 7mm anymore,
So we have a tendency to get closer to the occular lense, screwing up eye relief/sight picture...
Add in gaining weight, adding some fat to help the skin slip issue,
And you can quite easily grip the rifle a little tighter without realizing it changing sight picture... Especially when you are shooting a good group and get a little excited towards the end!
I had to video myself to believe I was doing this, but I was on every good group, just to get a flyer or two right at the end...
How I trained myself not to choke up on the optics/rifle was a piece of rubber tubing on the occular to remind me to keep my eye relief.
When the rubber touched my eyebrow, I softened my death grip on the rifle, relaxed, got proper cheek weld and eye relief,
And fired the remaining shots in the group...
My groups tightened back up.
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If the reticle seems solid, and the target moves behind them,
Its usually an optical illusion called Parallax.
There is usually an adjustable front lense or a 'Left' side knob for parallax adjustment...
And if you have turned the 'Occular' lense for focus (focal LENGTH, not focal PLANE), you can't believe the adjustment graduations.
Just adjust until things stop moving when you weave your head behind the optics.
If the reticle moves, and the target seems stable, that's focal LENGTH,
Or off centerline lenses.
Off centerline lenses will need to have the tube/rings adjusted so the lenses are in the center 20% of adjustment or so...