Hey, I fixed it, but guess what. . .
I guess I am a doofus, after all. I had the slide behind the bolt cam, instead of in front of it, making the space for the rod/spring about 1" smaller than it wants to be. I had put the whole thing aside, and was doing work on the house, waiting to check these posts later. I stopped at my work bench, and went looking into my manual, and lo and behold I saw my mistake. When I went to put it in with the slide in the proper position, bam!, no problem. Well, I don't think I'll make that mistake again. I even had my wife give it a try. She's helped me before when I couldn't get something to together right. I once had taken the center console out of my Dodge Caravan to clean it out. Went to put it back in, and damned if it wouldn't go in. Finally, many curses later, my wife took a look at it and realized I was trying to put it in 90degrees wrong. Talk about feeling like a putz! Anyway, I think I did slightly bend the guide rod, but it seems to cycle ok, at least manually (haven't shot it yet). Oh, well, I just ordered almost $70 of carbine tools from Fulton Armory, a few more bucks for a guide rod won't hurt too much. Good to have anyway. Thanks for the responses. Am looking forward to "having a blast" with my latest toy.