Follow up with Redding
I asked REDDING if they SELL A 2 STEP EXPANDER DIE FOR 357 FIRST STEP FOR EXPANDING TO JUST UNDER BULLET DIAMETER FOR NECK TENSION AND 2ND STEP A LITTLE OVER BULLET DIAMETER TO SEAT BULLET IN CASE
SIMILAR TO LYMAN M TYPE DIES?
Redding responded
Our expander found in the expanding die does just what you asked (see attachment).
Let me know should you have any further questions.

Thank you for using Redding Reloading Equipment.
Have a nice day,
Scott Lawrence
Customer Service Supervisor
cssl@redding-reloading.com
www.redding-reloading.com
I've attached an image they sent along and below is an explanation of their expander.
Technical Tips
Expanding Pistol and Straight Wall Cases
Lately, we have had several questions about flaring the case mouth of straight wall and pistol cases.
Generally, after resizing the case, you will run it onto the expander plug until you just barely flare the mouth of the case. There is no hard and fast rule, but a .010 increase in diameter is a good place to begin. Then adjust the expander up or down until you have minimal flare while still allowing the bullet to start into the case easily. Also be aware that the amount of flare is affected by the trim length of your cases. A shorter case will have less flare while a longer case will have more.
The Redding expander plug has two working diameters and an angle to create the flare. The smallest diameter is slightly under SAAMI nominal bullet diameter to establish correct neck tension for bullet retention. The narrow band is slightly over nominal bullet diameter to create a "shelf" for the bullet to sit on and remain straight while seating. The arrow in the illustration shows the approximate location of the case mouth to create a good flare.
Pistol_Expander2.psd ¨
I was hoping Redding would have this die